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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
, O, W* a1 S2 `: {you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. : i) v" c0 S& P- }: y4 f" `8 W* W/ V
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
; M9 H, ~% z. ?, S, Q$ V0 {! LThey will never be the same.
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* [3 K: |# G8 { You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
O5 b# D9 h* O Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. & [. R2 R$ O& ~4 t( V, l$ O
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
, x& _, C- ^6 p1 W: s Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 4 m9 W9 v$ {: z/ |; a* `- B
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
& K& R6 c" K/ O, j" s, ~ Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 0 X S, d8 K S8 p& t( ^2 J9 ~
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 1 b2 a# L5 U: c$ q3 C5 Q
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
R$ L' n6 M- v) J) }- v! D5 Z | Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. . ~0 `7 p3 c: Z, ?$ ^0 e0 G8 \
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
3 r8 G% P2 Q! K Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. . Y0 x0 _( }0 I
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. ; j) M7 D5 f" b7 m
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
7 Y, v1 Y& ]& R! _1 `; Mbut also where you are going. # b, l/ ` ]" z: `9 y0 I3 L
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 5 S: r8 X& W6 _/ N; @4 v' H
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
% P/ [4 p6 h' a( t' Q Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. . s1 Y0 N5 t5 m8 t1 Q, Y( O
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, ( ~6 K- b: J; b( B
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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--布莱恩.戴森
7 y I2 V4 \! V2 J. e& a# Y! O$ z 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 6 D2 m- @( F, e
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
+ n$ n8 O) \; @+ |; i- z6 o7 ?+ i: ?3 a它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 . ?9 ] u" E4 v0 F" e" G: M* `5 P
: }# G. f) C8 B你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ $ f6 R* Z9 { ^$ ^% @/ b$ x1 Y" F
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 ; e2 m6 c) y1 f* f; p
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 % L! Z' W" M4 ~' X ?' c0 h
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 4 O. f8 g2 R5 N7 C
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 # G; u8 o( C3 \$ b0 E, }8 ~
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
8 d( s A, Y$ m- n% i8 f失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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2 G( l+ U# e% s6 W: i. I1 a不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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6 J3 W3 f+ t: @; R. E$ h$ J不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 , f4 t# f: g% y2 u4 ^& m
& w$ H6 O+ P5 d, c不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 8 [. f4 K4 Q6 A" @
% V1 W7 {0 w: `8 b, j* R不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 9 k3 y8 z& r& U1 Z/ P! u9 }( p
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
- q4 Q5 J( J& I2 ~" C$ u. | _那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 , ^# x3 a( Y: l. j0 s5 _1 l. t
: D0 s$ u( n* u6 b4 r6 P+ B （周倩茹编译）
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