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Strive For Balance in Life ; v* Q. w r+ X# z3 D6 a
努力保持生活的平衡
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3 C4 V& \: m& V, z+ M+ a5 N/ o/ u. a by Brain Dyson
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4 W- H2 } L' B' D Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
* f S5 d; C8 {% O) D! o- Zyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. # `- @! f2 F: o) f0 d# [0 ]8 a+ [
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
; s* _0 e& O9 M% P# C0 v7 N( bThey will never be the same. ' ~5 K# p. r3 P, a/ B. L
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
& C7 V+ Q: d- r) j& } Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
$ X: C6 E4 k+ s; k6 k1 l4 ]6 J d* qIt is because we are different that each of us is special. , ~$ p. [% C8 U0 y1 w8 \
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 2 Y$ O a: T" d. k0 u) ~6 z
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 0 [% ]& i. Q! i5 u" a
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. * e! A$ x. K2 d: ~# G3 K
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
5 \: O( R# y& l7 |" F3 @- j Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
$ i8 Q0 p: p. m" `8 ]# } Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 9 w1 i3 g; s# [
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 7 Q; I( R! Z9 R/ Z
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
4 j/ o7 l% m8 L3 ^' m( `( pThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
' H+ Y+ R6 r( s1 m: e: | Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 9 N, L n& W8 l, l
but also where you are going. G7 v' B' @, U- [( G3 j
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. ! A& ^% W* v: E/ f8 K" ~: I
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
) u; L' {$ x2 B0 L) T: ] Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 2 F0 F x+ Z4 i8 p: ?) |, Q
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. . d) W& d ]! u; n3 I3 Y% l
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--布莱恩.戴森
% n% a- [2 Q; j# } 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
8 C6 t, `9 K$ B: O* d; U( r如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
9 j ]+ ~1 W* g* E4 A它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 " Q2 h: s. I( x) e, C
; R" b( D. L# E你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ 3 c- F& K0 [: f5 ^! P
: }& B) ^- S; o$ R( \不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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; z: |7 y% O/ V不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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% T6 i$ C m2 B9 g* |/ H0 _) `不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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" E- j! F4 j1 G7 A o1 R- c当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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8 T$ Q& q9 E& ?不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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+ L# b3 c( g/ t/ t不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
8 o+ `: O) |4 |失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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' P7 O/ |$ W& M不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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" a! c8 ?" B2 F& `不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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. u# L3 p/ I: J& D; k" ^+ Z不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 4 `' v( ]# q# t4 O4 F0 D% v
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
2 ]2 S8 I+ b1 n7 \那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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2 g0 X* Z8 s* x! d2 E5 Z9 _ （周倩茹编译）
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