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" [+ I0 x3 ]7 J3 e6 T5 z Strive For Balance in Life
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by Brain Dyson 4 Q/ ~2 d$ o# a
& _! u; D. [; |. ?7 \* B Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 5 C; ^6 I( N7 Z: w4 @
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
0 m. m" Z* `1 G& N f2 dBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
1 X' s5 {$ r7 ]. r7 e" v( cThey will never be the same. 9 w1 h: k; ^4 q t0 Z0 t
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? ! a& s/ D: ]* v" Q5 f* t9 Y; l
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. ) H" x/ {4 K# D( l/ ^7 `% L% P
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
' \* O8 n4 ~( l, o Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. ; t' J* S k% ]% U' e- h
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. / x5 G, m; {. R& h
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
; A% D8 }$ W7 m: gBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. % g% N$ g0 Q$ V
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
3 @7 q5 j K/ u Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
@8 x6 t* s' z8 v$ i Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
) S1 W0 t1 ^; r0 _( [8 O Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. " }+ b! H m; \7 [1 E
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. , r0 Y& h1 T% g0 c( {' k: A" P0 H' e
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
- d9 f2 G0 [& ]$ [2 cbut also where you are going. ' @* p: L$ J* Q, c
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. ) Q( Q9 f6 i/ r z
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 3 z- L9 k, J% ?$ ]) E7 p
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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0 O; W) \) u t5 E Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 1 D! }% R! a* T" ]2 t9 Y) _6 t
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森 ) w* E. ^8 X6 @8 Y) b% C1 e1 E
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
5 B) _3 n- }7 w. m$ j如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
7 Z# d! `% m" f8 e; @' S它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 " `3 k4 e1 E4 B4 u4 C
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 7 z, s# r Y% c. A. s
* R) C% s' v$ t7 ^+ ^7 a$ y3 Y不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 S7 |# o8 j" j) ~
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 ( C, n, X/ q$ `' I( i6 r1 f/ }
y P" n' t# {5 s& e不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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; [9 c- T+ q- ^- c' w1 T: U1 i当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 . @! h; j% }. Y
) d% t$ U$ L2 Z% f5 \不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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6 U9 A4 b# j" s不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； . f% X. W. a" n9 K
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 6 q4 f+ W8 O9 s$ G
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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# Q9 C" c& @) Y3 V+ c0 q+ p* _不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 + _9 M( C% l* v7 O, O4 `, h& i
" L: }( A/ E, @7 S不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 ; R, B2 r8 c0 O- M% ~6 Q, L! C+ b
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 - O5 O+ M7 _: b; L. \- b L
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 5 m1 x% W" }5 ^- i( k, Y
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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