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Strive For Balance in Life + j" _* Y1 e; b/ }" |& L
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. . \9 W/ i0 `% }6 I' U6 |3 D5 ]! W
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. / C8 Z( `1 x) S/ A
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. % v" G8 ^: A3 w
They will never be the same. 9 t8 M. b, F& D) u
1 I- l3 L7 M6 ~3 U7 @; K2 u5 `0 S You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
7 a0 j% l6 p2 w: t Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
4 Y! G2 O. \; aIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
7 g0 n* f: T7 g" W" f Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
o" ?6 `, x0 Z$ }* c0 U Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
7 b4 p( |7 M/ j5 m* ~! `! Y; T Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 1 {9 E- X4 V* R, ?% r7 m
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
) Z+ ^5 D, r7 R2 ]; Z3 q, u ~0 ? Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
- p5 m I5 h2 |1 {( f" h( d4 K) f2 `1 V Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. - \6 H5 u1 I: L! a+ O* ]( z
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
$ _4 I8 r( H/ g+ o, @ Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
! z0 t) ^, V$ PThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
# K* T8 N: M! Z$ { |6 ]; R8 `' F; S; t Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
3 q3 I- G- _6 k# n" `but also where you are going. # K" s1 L8 {: g# j b6 k) P3 U# {
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
0 \/ n' n% A2 q Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 1 m3 s2 K4 U6 A% D" Q- Y
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 9 L3 U: ^. Q2 o( |: f0 K x1 O
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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9 c; G& b- | g/ ? --布莱恩.戴森
/ M; I" v. e) i/ f) Z+ B 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
7 g& z7 z+ H5 y( S& H' K+ D如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
4 B5 l0 k3 ?0 D7 T% x3 b3 Z5 g+ U它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 4 z5 N2 a1 Y5 h% I4 N9 d0 n6 T
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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8 U. J" s G" A5 q" \6 b不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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$ {+ n+ F+ Q8 H4 \不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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' _1 A( _/ e3 L% N' D$ G不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 9 T) d( E) x& N ~, C* p
2 p1 u H: d# j8 w$ I" f当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 " U, _5 k; Q! N) L
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 + t0 q. G& n+ u: O
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 $ N# W/ j+ h5 n2 |6 Y
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 1 j) [0 y% S" w% ~
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 " _/ I. u) J: t9 L) z
6 G2 U/ y g! B; e# T( L5 v V" u不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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1 G. b: m/ b4 s* p不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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& f0 {- e+ W8 [/ Y/ D' S- J不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 * J; X/ q) ~9 L5 [$ F, E! h* L
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 3 M9 B2 z1 B l; P
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： , ?( y2 a2 S7 a& W
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 0 P: p8 |% ?+ {/ ?2 T6 p
' ]) U( ?5 j9 L) s; d) A （周倩茹编译） 2 U1 I. }6 q" Q! {
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