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Strive For Balance in Life % o6 i; J; I0 Q8 j% E( j
努力保持生活的平衡 5 Q9 k! M d4 e# E6 ~/ z
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. " O" g" N- J* F* z3 i2 {3 W
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
3 Y! Q6 u* p' R+ u1 tBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. $ a/ x3 \% v" N: d0 J8 L
They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 9 g8 U* u1 C; {6 v `2 K+ n; L
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. # W# E; P i4 h% b
It is because we are different that each of us is special. - I5 G& R0 C0 u& o
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
; \; K: B3 K8 Y/ z, D/ P/ B: h% v! y _ Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
; {* O& h; ~. r) P Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
3 I; N. q! l+ b: v/ M* p, [ ~By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. & D/ r: L, F4 e* @2 `
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
) a0 H6 k+ Z7 o8 U6 s Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. , f `5 T, B% S$ ^. F5 ?' N2 o9 g1 F, Y
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
) |/ ^+ o# ?7 s& z4 b: C: c Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ( z% Q( Z4 x" M
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
) P/ b4 g& M2 { Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 3 k) D' f& H7 \5 X% r
but also where you are going.
, F+ K+ x8 _0 y& b, p# P1 T, y7 _ Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
# \! s' T+ B7 {/ S3 \& ^: X9 x Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
/ k# f. E1 K- @ Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
9 g$ D+ H$ j5 c8 zTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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! k, {% H; Y9 D; p 努力保持生活平衡 . A) i$ k3 I& M, g* b
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--布莱恩.戴森 & h) W9 O7 f) [, k+ }& \
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ) }5 L5 ~) {. ]% S. `
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
/ Y9 W0 |5 U" _# s它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 0 B" k* Z; U. c0 z5 ^% {$ g/ R
5 {. a1 [ w' g( R# Z1 X你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ , y" o8 _8 j, w# e3 J
* O Z; q# D" p, L! _- L9 y( f不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 , @2 X' y% t8 z7 Y. h9 K; q7 i
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 3 }4 y8 G8 | W7 E3 O- ^ A0 o2 a
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 4 A/ j& Z8 u; T: H9 i* E* v) C& j
) S5 A: e0 d- F; n8 m7 F不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 + C' A) ]. e8 b: h+ s9 s
2 O, C; ?7 Y7 K" S8 O当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 , w* W" Q* P0 v
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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4 J2 o" j) }8 N% K% c不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 / D9 X: }5 U X6 S: ]* x3 @
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
1 b* u. i0 g8 W/ o# C% [3 N2 l+ K9 O失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 / P5 b0 T) ^9 C! |% G" J) {1 |3 p
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 ) m4 i8 T+ E& ?
3 ?1 u( H1 s. K- o$ D! N不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 0 r' b2 c( }* N. s2 q
* x$ ?9 O+ o; K. }5 U不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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6 e& R) M4 p6 \& e6 Q9 z不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 # S: o. h2 K. b9 E9 W- A" w
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 ( y1 `9 Y, k+ J; b) E
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
1 `; p; R$ Z% O$ \那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 ! K- ]7 W" {9 C# ]
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