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# e* o% w! {% ?0 u4 R Strive For Balance in Life ( @ T ^+ b/ i( m& s3 W" p
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% F ~1 X7 p T* G Q/ a2 P4 { by Brain Dyson
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. ]0 J3 D2 `" Q- m- K Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
( q* |. `. G4 T: ^1 A, b* M! g3 Fyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. * P* Q7 Q0 O f' [3 m
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
1 [4 k0 y/ Z5 }2 a IThey will never be the same. $ \# h" _1 w6 l. W' n1 W; |$ U
# h, R% k/ r. F! v' A% I& a" a You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 5 z: l' m9 D: P- k/ {& K7 \
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
3 B/ `6 \! E* DIt is because we are different that each of us is special. 4 Y$ n6 N3 W& Q' f
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 2 C( Z, Z" \3 P3 p( n; S* Z, a3 g1 q
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 2 U) z# P. U- l# \5 x0 r
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
/ \6 r# ^5 f1 h& L" `2 V/ mBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
. h9 T, R! } \* X$ m L3 o( z+ W Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. ! ~6 a2 ?1 [/ ?6 |
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
* ?8 u7 W/ U6 _. A. o Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
. U. c! Y% M& M/ _* C% E! _ Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 1 h) v2 t+ _2 J* ? a
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
8 a. b* M" ?3 U2 V' J+ M Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 0 a# `1 d- P( ~2 \5 c- Z9 q; i; Z
but also where you are going. . S; K! H6 S4 D
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
; U% h. U* c4 E3 {; j, N6 w& B" H Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 0 c& i! W# |7 g E. f
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. , G7 c- { D7 |8 P8 \0 D; J
& n# t+ g5 k* N( c3 u# G" ~ Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, ( N; C6 ?; i. G E
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. * ~* Z m5 A/ C! ?
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, \1 M' u) t/ D1 S) U 努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森 % r2 @# Z5 H/ H ?0 Z: q
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
8 U3 L' c3 t- t) O' v如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 9 r% k3 H$ G3 f; k& S. ?
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 6 M$ `' V# v! r% v& l! U0 H4 ^
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ . a; O, S3 h/ ]* X+ a/ G3 S
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 ! r3 x) N& z$ `7 w/ s2 Z
: L1 A/ F5 c+ n* _3 b7 F$ K. x3 {不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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$ c7 V! Y$ ~ w: h x不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 - u& j$ N) `! Z w) T: Z
' j% J# W# r7 o! A5 S3 S9 O当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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; x/ [8 o# {- J# L8 {- X8 u/ e不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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) N$ o; z8 q5 h% G不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 & [6 }' Q [$ R7 G/ [' |
' ~0 f! q2 }3 B) R& u/ s9 f; }不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； & m. G4 W: ~6 m/ e2 j9 {
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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: \. v( C0 @( O+ t3 D不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 2 ^1 R3 ~/ E; U7 T
% _1 h7 v# a+ w+ L不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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! ]! s' V4 J4 Q* P% s不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 ; j: A4 z* Y& A3 g
. n! j( u# P+ e- D9 I; z: v不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 8 Y4 a. g1 G* r' ^9 a% ?
. l+ o: b0 A1 a/ s" R X生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
0 A9 X! z" Q/ i昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： * E4 e& F3 t0 _- r+ r& i
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 ; I0 V9 N8 N3 s! e
' C' b! m1 v5 e" c) D. S$ _5 T6 f （周倩茹编译） 3 @. a6 U7 u) t. l: {0 R
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