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Strive For Balance in Life
" j0 S2 A; k) x+ M0 x 努力保持生活的平衡 2 @0 N( c3 c' N2 a
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( P. }4 R" w. ]/ [8 P7 h by Brain Dyson
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
; s/ a( @. X$ Y4 E$ Cyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. ; X) P( t n8 W2 I+ M7 ~; h5 ^- }
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. - B( @4 T0 G) u0 P1 s
They will never be the same.
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: |6 \* c" C& ^ You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 6 I) A9 ?+ d- K! B. f1 [
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
, h( \% U. ], m5 }: mIt is because we are different that each of us is special. ' N4 |. d Z, W/ L$ g0 O
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
4 s: u4 G" B: j2 t" N Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
+ F& S9 x6 R& v+ @9 k+ D/ G3 | Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
- I" o6 y4 n% m) W7 mBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. ( u( y! Y) r0 p
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
3 z! A V$ R$ [9 ~9 L3 q) E, H1 e Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
) q" m7 A+ e ]3 G# S% u- q Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
& `% B' T5 o$ F6 a4 g Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 7 {* J# ^! T' [# K
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. : w9 Y/ Q/ ]3 _, t/ t
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, * u) O e e; m7 M. v* F- w
but also where you are going. 1 ~& p9 D' k J2 x
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 8 j6 W0 E3 } D; C& g% F s" c! K9 k
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 8 w4 B$ U( P2 D% K9 K
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. . Z' o0 v D! G& v
' x/ Q$ f4 ~, [$ R Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, % i, ?- S/ p" n- z v
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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# ?4 F* J+ Y7 U f2 e 努力保持生活平衡 0 j" P6 i5 @ H% I9 h- w
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 " j" ]" d7 p6 Z- H r8 z6 a8 s
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 ( b. a- r! I: n* U
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 ; `$ |0 t6 }& e0 e; ^3 M
) I8 D4 _! E, k" N8 I) u你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ % P3 j1 ]# }9 }& n v4 r
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 : I# R( M# I4 V4 |0 q$ b8 W
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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6 P# O$ t- W* \2 F不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 2 V- H% t3 R. b0 g H7 \' |' L
- ~! h) n' V( O% u" q- l- b5 L不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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" W$ U4 m* H6 B- Q ]2 s& q7 `当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 7 C- `, p, E: F0 Y
1 l% r: x8 R3 r不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 : F. v% M! ?$ m1 {4 t
* `- ]; k1 d" t; ^+ v不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
1 v2 ^' ~, u9 r6 b; C% l" Z失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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& t$ k& y. i# P不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 - `6 j) ?" Q3 a+ q# P, ^' ^8 V7 G7 l
2 h0 O# w K8 t6 t& g1 a$ Z9 t不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 , u7 v/ [) O1 I8 c: K2 K
1 G- C, V) z: Y; `不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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" W1 _- c* {4 L5 T4 m% }" H6 \# O不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 1 C. P( e. P5 W$ Z# ?$ E, }
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
& [- a# K! e( |昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
- [/ ~( j" J, k8 h6 K7 C) X& s那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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