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- f) F4 D+ k! O1 K- |" s: x; H Strive For Balance in Life , K9 H( m/ f0 T0 g+ f. }
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
2 U p) }( V0 M- syou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. 0 |9 ^; v5 Y3 f5 g
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
* `, z; O; y1 K. N" rThey will never be the same. ( H# K% j9 i0 B
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? - M. E$ U* P/ W4 E
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 8 h% C+ w, ]8 m; Q7 a, e7 E- x
It is because we are different that each of us is special. : b% ~& C. L8 A Q7 w2 g! H0 R
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
: M; S( X! q1 _% o5 x Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 9 ~0 ]9 F2 S0 [
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
, \) }2 g: U) d s4 s! lBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 4 Q7 N1 m" w b. c( y) ?: ]' A! _. ~
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
) W8 L8 m1 k% }: [$ W5 K Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
; X% b5 Z2 Y! Q2 E0 @$ k Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 4 g9 `7 B1 a0 ?
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ( M! d, C' I9 K7 \
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. , ^4 e+ a4 p3 V$ P
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, ( E; m' u1 A/ R8 Y4 C, q' f$ K
but also where you are going. ! }. Z9 U+ ~1 ~! V/ F
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. ) ^3 d4 D, R( u6 [: q9 o- \8 d1 ~
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
9 H* z/ x+ s6 K2 @7 ^ Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, + |, Q) k. W# X* u/ r
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森 , g2 m" o9 A& I/ M# ~* l) p9 j7 A
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 % r7 D! w; `: O9 x
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
& ?5 f5 x8 ?/ i它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 8 @, L; n$ m6 @' R
) o- H" |2 M- I% Y0 [# g4 G你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ # {6 }/ c% J( l7 R
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 z- M- j8 z* U9 T% v- ]9 u+ C& u
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 2 ], r3 v% z! v1 w& {- J8 p
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 2 {6 B8 b# ^, p* }' W9 s4 f
- l" X4 y4 Z' G6 e3 G8 V& C当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 " a3 \4 R& S: K; K
# `- m8 T6 A4 x# f不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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1 |" g, t" H+ _: o: F) _不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； ; T% \: I" p$ K# U, T2 W* Y+ C# v! _7 z
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 / X3 Q$ P# e( w+ S
5 q$ w9 x4 u/ q) c8 r Q不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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) C, T% D5 w- v; Q不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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& L/ ~. c4 b7 H( r8 Y生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 3 I& b5 O) q$ i2 l Y; y
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 4 h' w/ _. i3 t4 B
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 7 u' f ?6 t! M" Y7 w/ N
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