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Strive For Balance in Life
$ T* u9 C$ ~( S; a 努力保持生活的平衡 ) t5 s2 d3 `' E0 c
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7 t1 j% k/ J) `( W* h X Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. ' m( i8 K2 m/ W$ {+ |
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
0 n) Q% ? T# v2 c8 GBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. 9 V* q1 |9 i& a! B. ]7 O) D/ o
They will never be the same.
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% O2 ?! Y# E9 z You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
9 B+ F8 d. L: O Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
" A3 }" n, G* k- ^9 t6 r) O8 P2 ^! CIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
5 j5 E6 A. ]) u- V0 j Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
! c. B* p) y+ {6 |; u' E& {3 K Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
0 Q y7 L, h2 Z2 E. Z+ M- D: T Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
% y1 N+ H0 n1 t; x/ Z; T8 eBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
% w& _: \+ u5 w9 m- ^+ [& q Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
0 H4 f4 v' ~7 j* Y( p Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
]/ N8 a4 B2 q, \( N' J Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. ( c/ ?) y9 v/ R7 H3 [
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. " I5 z4 P" t8 |% F6 c* q
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
) n# u$ y3 } n Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
' }( {4 X1 ]/ ~$ y1 Ibut also where you are going. ) d" D# j6 k$ g% k6 \2 e9 L
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
8 |1 J3 x7 O$ P i0 ~ Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 4 g' g- G, g( U
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, # G9 N; h P; k7 | G9 o! T. r
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 2 A5 Z% t0 w: k
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Y M3 y# p: B, D+ h& i 努力保持生活平衡
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, S$ G- V4 ~$ ^& O! h2 O! p' f --布莱恩.戴森
% ^+ u; K. F& ~, I- O: a! T+ i, G 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ) H) S/ ]; U2 H+ Y
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 $ Q5 S1 a; l2 x! V% x
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ * B% a. p( U8 f. H) C3 M1 ^
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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. N( ~9 K3 _" `& ]6 v不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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) k3 b1 v% @ h+ \5 X- S不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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" w8 o, @+ U# u: w' X, _, n9 r3 ^不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
, Q- }: L: U1 ]- b& H失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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' `0 ]& L" ~8 p, L. O不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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- G! x- F9 s" X) M生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
) p5 p& ~2 [4 p0 n! C5 T昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
r z8 c" J( d那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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