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" `# U* m* s' T" J3 X by Brain Dyson ! { _7 @' G" W4 P N. T+ G* T
% I8 h) f8 v5 Z4 b Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
$ g( t: o1 P7 s! x3 N: `you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. & d$ y- B g9 `* {& L
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. , o; r: R! L3 T7 i; C( L: ]
They will never be the same. 3 a* h: }5 f) o5 F
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 5 Q+ a8 b) @8 d$ Q( {) @' |
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
" @" \. b3 e" h0 g. @' }It is because we are different that each of us is special. : v9 ~2 b/ y8 c# l& M6 B- ~
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. * O, i! e4 }6 F
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
+ H9 P: G9 S+ L; w Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
& T8 t" _' E2 N7 wBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
0 r" o! F' P! K! A Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
' k2 L9 _' L, r- d7 i Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. , ^* H6 U X% e3 s9 ]% G9 K3 d
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. , ~! f8 S0 R* F
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ' N1 J" H2 j6 f0 d7 j: ~/ c3 B: c
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
( \: S$ N( ^. X( f. b Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
( ~+ e$ O/ \( n/ ~8 ?: s% Z& d+ Abut also where you are going.
& h4 n5 c9 n) J* p" K Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 5 m3 Q: u$ v/ x
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
: B" K& a% ~" o0 L V Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, w- l* C' B! p& q$ P9 \; I5 @
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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: Q8 ^/ F% `8 `7 ~- o: r& s' ] 努力保持生活平衡 5 x3 [; ?' x+ Y! b! p
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
5 V# D& @. p6 _4 j0 `# I如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
3 ^0 ?+ A- v4 b7 I- {5 d它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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# O0 T+ p' _# f' m你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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4 k$ {" A4 Y* ~; M% z不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 6 a! ?" a/ {% o
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 * M0 D* }& b6 P" L6 o* Z. @$ z
) i0 P2 ], I' h/ E不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 3 I8 J! }) m% a. y3 T8 u- ^1 o! E/ v# ?
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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2 R% _) Z5 l3 ^5 c: f6 h4 j7 f当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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/ |$ i& E& u- m) N3 e, C7 ~不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
8 ?8 G9 f: A B6 y& h$ R p失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 " g% N" Y* O, A
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 $ V8 ]9 P. a5 D' w$ X
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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& B- d2 `. M4 u! a不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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. |: w: Y( H! ]生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 $ b2 r! ~+ z2 u
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
8 [: T. w4 w6 H6 \$ j7 H# c3 W) F; o那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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