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4 u. p; _3 _$ Q4 w3 x4 s- }3 \ Strive For Balance in Life
( c4 E* \" U5 B9 Y 努力保持生活的平衡
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
# A# b& ~4 n: j; f2 Myou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
, P$ A' t! O7 QBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
7 d% Y q; G- l2 KThey will never be the same. 6 W! ~' T- w. X" i7 m& Z
8 f& C. Z( o1 f( g: K You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
" U8 o8 ^: c% X7 P" A. | Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. % b; v! [2 |+ w
It is because we are different that each of us is special. # A; m0 x/ z, @& b5 b1 T8 Z
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. / `+ y6 k7 c% T4 y2 N' N
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 1 }: h, h; n. c! o. F+ y. F
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. # |2 j& d% }+ _" d( w
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
. {+ t* u5 Q$ d' `, Q Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
+ H: r' k) j( |7 u. M$ @8 _" }) @ Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. : W' J/ X7 L% j x- c
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
' p4 I4 V$ {9 _ Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 8 w" |/ }$ G9 ^
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
3 R @+ y9 g( S- U" V( R Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, * D4 c7 O9 _; g
but also where you are going. , h0 ?7 m# L; k* T7 s3 Q8 q& }. m. s3 s
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. / E) y- h" |& @: x9 O+ y! L2 W
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
7 k' T% U" x3 x% v$ M& g2 ? Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. , G+ V& B6 _, [, ]; |' A
/ f5 t9 b M- M Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 7 S7 F0 I+ E# w' o
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. `1 J8 m0 j7 T2 g# `
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: ^2 B4 w1 w* q6 g5 `# ?7 s 努力保持生活平衡
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
. F6 F* I) u! r9 O; G4 U2 e! B如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 5 I2 y+ l# t4 Z4 m, k& m# P
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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5 s. z z: j7 I: {" [你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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7 y/ S2 s; U% g; z不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 ) c" e, X f! \. F9 j2 P
! Q+ n9 t! W9 v$ L% [4 K9 x不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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9 I% y1 c K% C `* i不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 4 D( Z5 i6 H; G9 u( R. Y
5 z2 y9 E" t1 i1 M( V当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 ; }! w. _6 t! \3 k7 T
0 T4 O5 d/ R, r2 {不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 . J5 d. b* q$ ]. ~* x: P" W. y7 ?
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
8 ~/ z: r( d, m3 H y- c失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 " ?, n0 H; d9 `- f: v9 Z# e, \; V9 A' c
8 F: E. a+ S7 N8 {$ d不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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! W3 y' r, ^# u% J5 |不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 3 M! G2 N. M( M) @# n4 I3 ~
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
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那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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