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* l( P; x! ~7 }, H% x5 V Strive For Balance in Life
& ~7 `2 |' T( e( V. q! O1 p o6 M 努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson
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( K" J: y# @. x) T- |7 I6 b Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
0 h2 d5 Y6 R& s+ q0 Pyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. M" e& n( G3 y
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. 7 r; p- I6 M& M7 {) v
They will never be the same. ! j, b7 [6 L1 m2 {! N& q
5 G. r/ K; R0 l; ]- U1 Y7 H/ ` f You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
" N% J" y! _" ^5 ]) l: L! a$ z) l Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
; o L7 B. ^( Q$ e8 bIt is because we are different that each of us is special. / ^8 @8 P A6 x( z1 \
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
! F. Y2 Q9 F# e; _6 w# J! A Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
% {! ]- Q: X2 n- i Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. ; c7 `' C! Q+ R, b
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
( o c7 ?5 D( { H7 _ Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 4 u6 F- k, ]$ |/ g8 `
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. ) H# r7 z) M, P
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
: U5 x( K6 U j6 k9 B1 I$ { Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. N, V0 j8 F$ j0 d
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
2 A2 L1 I5 y1 n/ {' j Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, $ F% y% O; q- J7 r7 d
but also where you are going. * k/ R+ @* u5 F0 k, D# g
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
* Q& B6 z0 s5 B/ \1 a$ R Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 4 P: k' t+ a x1 U) Q& O8 P4 K
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
# U0 }7 V1 r6 J& k" _Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 1 n( w* m, q* Z C
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努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森
5 t6 W# j! r+ c( a q( c c 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
6 U3 I) C9 F$ {# s9 O) \如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 0 R, _0 l/ e4 K4 m M
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 & Q6 A0 P. I4 `
' b# U5 t: s/ F% X0 e6 C# J Z. G你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ ) T( h& p3 w' ~' j y: }3 X8 A6 D
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 , A9 e# M! `, k; G" G
$ t: ^0 a9 d! m% D( i不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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2 h; D5 F% O' s1 P' Z" e" Y" L不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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9 t* v- m5 [, A8 u2 y, `不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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[, n) D. K8 @0 v. ? A5 @, }/ P" y当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 ( y2 a2 m' X* Z- x5 s
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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" T! Z" @' o/ J; {5 M1 o不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 % v) S1 i" r; y1 L- [; h
1 x3 A" `, r7 w$ }不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
0 i" v6 {) c! o8 X失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 ) r* s( V' X/ i; v9 I+ O
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 + I3 I) I1 ]) w" Z
8 y3 l1 I( d, V" R: I9 ?不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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8 j" ?" ^& m W$ n9 F* {! j不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 8 u& _( L& P; E. \6 `# A6 ~
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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8 ?' K2 A; t B0 B( H$ r `生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
, m6 |+ u/ @8 `! X2 }& d昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 6 T! { |) Z8 G$ D! h
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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