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努力保持生活的平衡
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7 T, G. [0 `6 m8 |0 x1 A8 P. O Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 5 z6 B' y" ]% W( c" E( B7 [
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. * L# s, M# G" w$ X8 v: W5 ]
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
. W/ [/ c! k7 ^" \1 DThey will never be the same. ! }; V8 F8 M2 _) _4 P
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
' L2 D0 o8 v# H) H Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. S' l0 @4 W; u9 V' L' j
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
8 G% K& u" G0 [- l9 b4 F Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
6 d/ v ^9 h1 v/ \+ D) ^4 J Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
1 i) M, E/ @8 B" [ Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
: x8 p; M/ ~3 C: u. U8 g; GBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
* l& p7 p2 h( o5 r0 g9 N Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
+ z2 }) ~9 ^1 q1 W T Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. - ]+ u/ a* q E) r' [) C" C# W8 r) `; {
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
0 r1 P1 j0 z' I$ f6 h! F; g Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
9 u9 l; e5 p% e8 |( rThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. + b1 p$ }( P, d( T8 I: o' J
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, : ^/ ^; h, W) P7 C9 q
but also where you are going.
6 ]$ Z8 t7 U6 }+ {( B( q4 P7 Q Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 5 V/ V; C- M8 J; y" c0 w/ b
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. % w7 X7 o J& o
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
7 e. M; m( u3 QTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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, k i! R2 ]& b+ m! [. W- I+ g( d8 \ 努力保持生活平衡
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& P7 w* ~9 A/ I* k e8 }8 f --布莱恩.戴森 0 [ f0 }: B% E% B( w% S5 V
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 % [9 t6 o4 e8 G
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 $ @: j5 M0 G5 [' U
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 % G/ p4 i2 b" ~
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ + ~" b. h% F# I
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 $ e8 p' j6 U9 X5 m( J- \" s' a, [
- a3 H# X) z: Y) x* D不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 ~ i: f. l. {
, Q9 ^" ? j3 {! t/ A, a当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 8 }. J' q/ r3 c X
! o/ H; Y! h8 S% ?* S* _% z1 m不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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~4 Z- G( V$ }0 j2 S不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； ) `+ |6 i: L/ X
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 4 x3 t' r' D* Q/ [/ C5 r" t1 |) g+ `
: g6 A! `9 g0 |( k6 @ |) j不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 6 q/ S. [/ |$ A" D! Y" ?
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 . o; j' N# U7 k( f! m
. ?! w8 |; {& x" r不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 3 _' l, i, V" U X# V' G; G& ~
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 : H6 L9 l- ~5 J. _
) B+ w+ g, ^5 L) y8 L5 [生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
+ _' F% L7 m S. J4 L昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 3 h* C) j# l3 O+ |5 B! V, P
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 / p" X' ^. K" |$ A
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