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7 V' V1 w' B1 g0 W Strive For Balance in Life & v% n/ P8 W6 P5 D! w# `, |
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; n( d7 S& f# D% M1 Q( ~7 X Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. & J- X( D# ~1 W* }' U3 |
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
6 b& Z* L5 H5 e2 r0 L4 e* e+ q* cBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
1 d- g& l, k5 @2 \ {They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? ; x, `% d6 D8 ^, E, `& p
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
. d2 \7 m o$ b W7 w9 eIt is because we are different that each of us is special. + [: Q R. U g9 Z1 e M T
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
. k) A/ |+ ^) y) D" k' W Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
# t" W' x4 o: ?6 s5 ^2 E$ ~9 \ Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
$ u) R1 ] }0 E, ~+ `! u) |" l, LBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 6 d; k7 N0 g+ V3 _3 B
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. . Q) X9 T% k3 v" m
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
1 G; V; x- G2 V5 p0 v Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
2 f( z9 @3 R9 S F1 D: C Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 5 h8 {8 B, ^, _0 g$ B, N
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
8 N5 _2 ?5 W( z/ W$ p5 | Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, . A+ _: p& G p0 F! ^- _6 {
but also where you are going. . r. y! J; d5 O0 o5 G
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 0 a; z8 V8 d; d& d5 I5 c4 T
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
$ C6 z7 V0 o7 @7 k& k a Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. ) X; `# ]; b& G. a3 j
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
$ l+ `) A+ d$ l. R2 _3 l* JTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森
# R! b- y; w( ?) b6 u 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
- ~& k2 i- a) O8 P+ E3 {& R4 Z; V如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
0 e5 Q, ~9 Q- K' [它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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v" |1 r. C+ j, q你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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: M* `3 m# w6 t( W: c0 |6 P不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 + W$ P. r) u: f- I# C
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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6 z/ B! O- q5 c- y不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 , J( [! Y- @6 r0 p
$ F) K0 o0 W" R* r不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 9 g3 w. \1 C' | Q n; ]% E
( e) ~+ {+ |/ S0 ^3 N当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 & J5 m0 V# J4 H& {6 m& H" |
2 L0 {1 C- i- N# [5 T" }不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 2 k0 d, N) d; v) ^) w
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 4 B! |: N V8 s, G
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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( {- x$ ?; ~5 k0 z- P! t$ n不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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: r5 t. g! i; Z }- e不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 ' B& k8 `6 b9 `9 I! y' a( M* C `4 R
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
% \7 H( c4 ~" Y# J9 Y6 A4 I那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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* P2 b; G. K. P. [" ]' x% P# V8 H （周倩茹编译） " t2 f* s$ i$ {. W; d
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