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/ R- c/ j4 Q$ f8 v, ]2 r' s; i by Brain Dyson
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
8 f/ S# T o1 ]you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
0 Y6 a; X( O9 K- I& S/ G2 }! PBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
- h! j' i. R7 c8 G6 h9 \1 zThey will never be the same. $ @! k0 Z Z& Z4 c- i
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? $ h6 A: S* ]5 C% |7 j% ?" C/ ^' y
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
1 S. n1 M( ^" D! uIt is because we are different that each of us is special. 5 A" B) ]5 ?7 a- v; g+ A V* F
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 0 s6 L) M2 I1 k# u( S
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
5 R5 g. w. u+ b" e' r Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. ! j5 q4 F# ]7 v# B
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 7 R3 p1 `( J) l$ w" `( R" j3 B
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. . k) y+ j) i5 o3 d& o0 E
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
N4 ]! K6 P+ g1 m% S1 L" s5 ^+ G/ _# w Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 3 n" r) Z+ B" B6 P0 P9 G# X
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
! Z& P& S7 G9 Q8 @; T! g& A& _The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
# ~6 S/ B. Q$ l( {; S" U Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
, ~* M5 e" D7 A5 mbut also where you are going. % e1 {" T2 V( r: }; J5 p/ c9 s! f
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. $ f h# J! [( i" L* X M
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
; S ~: S" N6 B# ^' l Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. - U5 q& R' F3 A2 {# L" V3 `# @* L
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
' p8 {! h Y* `' |+ a' z# RTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. ; k9 V, F Z0 Z) S+ F3 h% s
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2 b* k! U8 \. q; x; f 努力保持生活平衡
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' m- J# R2 z1 | --布莱恩.戴森 3 E* o! C" W$ `# A
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
8 V2 N: A- P; Q" K, Z f: x如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
1 T6 H. v7 ?& d它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ # X* m2 y' S5 r6 K6 P, N
: ], l. d& H# H不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 . ^! ~5 O; c3 r6 Y7 a& ?
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 o8 }+ Y7 b _% n! G% {% K
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 & Y/ D. H" `0 T5 H
$ M4 T6 ^: k) @不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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5 Z. f7 p5 e1 ]# z, Q; F& i当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 # d+ n9 k3 B& p$ ]2 W
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 & B- Y7 m& g; h& M( r1 e2 _
/ b5 k- I6 x1 x$ ^0 |9 ~; ?9 I不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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" N6 c) Q6 h4 D" u# j' Y( b不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 6 e; N- W2 }3 h" T. T w
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 , K7 o; U5 L- ~3 o: y2 u) e9 @+ e/ v
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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6 L8 g; w: ]: }& \- @2 X0 }不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 2 `& j# f" W; j
& m+ h; E' @4 t( Y9 d不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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: {' p! C- b7 W5 ~. k生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
6 T1 V; Y' h! J! [: D昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
2 E/ N/ f$ @; K! T$ F2 m. y0 l那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 $ G; U& n7 [! B* u. p1 M2 d
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