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Strive For Balance in Life 8 B& V6 C: Q: c1 [& \
努力保持生活的平衡
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8 w: J s2 ~( }& ]0 u4 B. `* ^) R by Brain Dyson $ C6 r1 B A/ O1 ~! K
* I! A! T4 ?) X0 _' Q5 ` Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 2 F) S" q0 \. \* r
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
) e3 Z( @5 A2 @" e: J1 VBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. h4 W; q/ @% }' o0 {4 B$ _% Y
They will never be the same. 0 X& `# Q$ V0 Z" L8 |; \7 t: a
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
- p$ v' J, h2 x/ y6 R, \% F3 n Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 9 h- O8 G4 S4 Q1 \; z
It is because we are different that each of us is special. # K/ b" k8 l& \1 q R
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. ( V0 \. ~6 S( g8 i6 @& {; t
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 1 Y& I0 E1 y+ H8 c3 ]& O3 L# j$ Z
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
; G9 C' b2 Y2 t9 w& Z. s3 pBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
& `+ _) L9 {) D, u Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
$ z# u5 C* O$ v Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
$ Q+ |! w( r( F# `6 b6 ~ Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
- L7 ~8 F6 z4 [5 z( U2 D Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ) p/ F3 W6 F7 S
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
* F ^3 g4 d: b Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
8 }; V- G6 f2 O0 _ }but also where you are going.
" E0 V* h! k3 f+ D& d% U! k W4 `4 D Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. + S; o+ q1 \, s X
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. - } x I! ^0 D) Q5 a+ p8 |/ E5 |
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 2 a; T1 ?9 L4 m9 A) h* Y+ |; N7 m1 @
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
. P3 p1 N S. p& z& u如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
7 V3 A" a/ Q' x% `8 W$ R它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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- i, c" T* M9 n6 l; s+ I, I你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 - X0 J6 p/ n% r' I
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 ( o; a' \; z6 f! M
7 z6 @# |2 J2 q% g当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 7 ]/ H, \# d0 u" ~8 e$ O1 B
! B; w3 z% L1 \# Y. U不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； & S6 }/ R9 M3 `) s+ \- |
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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: K5 N. Z7 }( w0 s1 l不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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1 y1 |2 P' S3 U! Y7 O2 |不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 6 ^6 B& N) d% E( }% Q n
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 $ [7 q( T6 f9 c* y* k
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
. `: l2 h& Q+ w昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： ! r6 }; b, x0 h) H4 d4 K
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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