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努力保持生活的平衡
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( T; `/ @$ a7 k# p ~ Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 9 M. W- d9 F( U% `
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
. @$ O7 o1 C! ]0 DBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
5 y, k+ g9 ]' r/ i$ K* |# ^They will never be the same. 3 z! y6 q& v d$ J
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
1 j) p: A/ P# n4 h; P9 D- Z Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
- W( T% P* D( p- ]! @& cIt is because we are different that each of us is special. 8 n( \+ T: ^3 ~( B( }0 Q
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
# l. o" x* b4 z' `% v; c# a Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. : k7 {* N; g- g( Y
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
% k. p/ v# _# \6 r7 }4 DBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. , \. j' j; t* @; w( y0 i& y- p k8 Z; ^
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
& k% Y; E( a; ]. y0 F Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. & G( X7 a5 R, r. P+ O" C( T# s7 j8 L
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
! R Z$ q1 S/ G* ` Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. . d/ l- `5 r4 `# |
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. $ z! Z$ ?& U# R* N
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
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Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
* z! A* A5 w# C5 m1 q Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 0 E3 ^& y! K' u) W0 J
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. # M; d& w# w( X5 Y( u
6 U' q9 O8 T7 q5 V1 G9 V Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, ) S. ~! L) g2 Q. u) d
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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7 a8 A4 O. _' A --布莱恩.戴森
3 P) j/ j' F# v( {0 N F 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
# V- N% f4 F8 t- M如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
' S8 o$ _7 [+ z5 M$ `% Q它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 v- ]( E& z, H7 Y
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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! P8 S9 g1 r( S: S: W" {) X不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 : |4 ]5 V! c. |! Q* L1 b# ?! r8 R! C7 u
, p3 d% u6 H9 P5 l H; K9 G6 w不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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7 H3 i- i: U1 V- `" k$ m) g不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 . w9 k& _! @' ]5 O$ D8 D$ V
5 ]+ _" z2 {3 ?% n# r, }: Y当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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' \6 x5 y+ ?- x不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 2 L! }1 G: l7 i0 {
6 k. j% q9 p, C1 i- g不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 8 V, l/ `5 C) Q, s. d3 r" [5 u
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 4 \ i& z/ f; r( r! A
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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8 M$ O4 f- x& V4 a* `不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 + D9 [2 J; [9 S0 Z
! C( f( c* u- u8 o8 T+ }% X8 J不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 3 p$ o& v* t1 ^) g
! @/ Z# j+ P! O; h4 B$ w不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 : S8 n0 r8 X5 Z7 N1 b( c3 `
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
! a0 k8 k; F5 _7 i昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
) H9 {. k' u; H那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 3 M8 H6 q0 n" Z; e4 t
+ E/ \- b$ n$ _ （周倩茹编译） ! ^( B! P6 T" K+ I5 H- I. ]: x
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