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Strive For Balance in Life 3 R, M) u) f& _) v+ G3 `
努力保持生活的平衡
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. ; t+ R7 i! e+ q M& J `
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. : m. ^- |5 I+ P, `' o0 F7 z1 [
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. & _2 h& }# u% w' B) b* x# C9 ]
They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
0 ]2 h) A& n% I4 Q( L( }9 K: s Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. ! v, ?7 r5 D! U: D8 p$ m
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
`5 q% o; k- i2 M! f Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 3 e. L: g3 T7 V" ^" ~4 T
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
! q. V- a# R% [8 t Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. : Q3 a6 k3 l3 v( e- e* d
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 4 r" b8 l& T2 k, C2 a
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
4 n. O7 U/ |9 y6 |( v0 v, p$ Y Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
/ Z/ M" a! p5 E1 L$ o3 y B Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
: J' V* p- z3 i2 M- `) ^1 d4 S Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 6 t! _/ j) r& J6 Q: p0 l* A8 i, l
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. _% q+ H! }2 T/ v ~
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
2 p" U$ n6 Z4 C( Z' {$ z" f3 \but also where you are going. 4 E# s7 v, G6 Z/ S& A: w/ S
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
, n! H# t3 [ ?$ T1 g4 Z V, { Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
7 u0 ?1 E, R0 j. ~( y7 N Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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% k9 A8 k6 k' \/ H. v8 N6 l$ n4 N Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, - G. p$ W1 S2 ~" h8 A+ p& s
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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& S m/ E; O) j' q& P --布莱恩.戴森
$ H8 v! e, ~7 Z y3 q3 j 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
0 W2 ~4 b6 u& O) c+ {2 m如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
% G+ S3 i) a/ p) {- J! Q9 K它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 1 U3 D7 W7 g+ `9 g
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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' i- a! G. K9 {: m& _ p m9 b不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 # x+ `% j5 n/ r. u: [: D0 Z
9 h2 f; |3 [5 N& ^% r5 v不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
: q) I; v. y; I失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 7 E/ h, W) z2 f/ O+ b
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 A4 D7 H h% K p. @6 d/ z. b7 o9 Y
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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/ E+ p( W1 k- P. _0 ^- q% U不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
$ F8 S% f% Y1 W5 l昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 8 f" U# T- u) x
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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