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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. # p7 ?2 z( G- b. l$ u0 w
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. : H5 p1 i% ?. |: X; [
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
" t. a: q5 |( ^6 W5 m, o7 ]They will never be the same.
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' h8 o+ ^5 [. A" r$ h' i, g# Y. h2 U You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
E3 v: T5 q& N" I( ^3 T Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. # }5 D8 U" @. `5 {
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
8 c; Y+ v4 p4 H# |" H& B' ?# v6 E3 X Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
5 o9 h7 S9 K0 g; m( q% g- | Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. - m0 }* j4 o/ G1 }
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. # l! j0 F1 \! z1 I
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
0 T. S+ W/ Q# h2 N+ o; p; { Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
9 `9 `7 D' N: m0 l% Z4 q Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. - l( G# Q( k* r! z, J" m5 v' S) O
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 5 m2 h# \& p2 b
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. # _" i8 H% e) h- e+ r
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. * Z- c! ~6 j f) |
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 5 [$ d; H9 c/ H, N* ?$ c1 _& r) i
but also where you are going.
w- e9 X/ u6 F# O( o Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
; V# b& d" x# Q2 ^: D* f5 [( l Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
+ O* s u+ }2 O6 G" u% b& n5 i Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
1 a3 E" |. w6 ]/ Q6 ?Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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--布莱恩.戴森
6 N9 I) e9 H1 b* K 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 8 G4 F- W$ a! I! H' q0 [
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 ) k; `( E$ p+ z' Z
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 7 i$ W# E: s S
) S: y% i2 e" o. Y你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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/ D, c3 T0 C& U9 I3 `不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 + g* T8 }; M4 s' i0 W F) a0 U
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 . _: K* d! X9 Z$ k
' b4 }, g! W" I6 Q9 Y不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 3 G7 t; v3 a& S- ^1 U( h2 w( ^
/ O; h, ?0 @( T3 ?) Q/ B" ^不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 # _9 W* ^4 @5 t# A' i) l
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 & S7 d" y: z D
) o- L. ^( T- E' F$ i3 z不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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4 X* Z5 c2 Q( J/ U3 ?; _不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
; d' P5 X8 Q5 n4 c失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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* \# [4 w6 G0 h/ ^2 F不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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+ T1 ]- x, R" C8 v生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
8 M" @. Z9 F; ?0 o# E0 d* r昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
# S, U- H. O: `( A7 z, W% l0 d/ `那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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