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9 |3 W0 ^2 p& z% ^( O Strive For Balance in Life 6 r* e. V* f9 X- E& ?: u9 l1 m
努力保持生活的平衡
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8 |/ A9 Q# f. Y. u7 Y Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
5 u: E" x: F' P( s6 Syou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
5 E( s$ q; I! e8 r, V8 ~But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
; L: b. |5 W& ~, A7 OThey will never be the same. n4 b7 B* x* V* p# k' n
) D+ p/ j3 ?1 j' g You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
~# p) M$ ]; t( o D8 f) E Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. - j; @) L" S: o% U
It is because we are different that each of us is special. * M; Y4 _. l) {
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. x1 l- K8 }' m5 f
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. * p3 j! S& q% f. q: f, U: ~* D
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 7 z2 M6 N* E- R- V0 I: c4 \
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
7 n& m( Y, |3 b ~ Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. ; F6 E1 Z; m, J4 d* U
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
3 Y7 H1 E( G' B: s- R7 e Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
% [2 @- I! n! F Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. : k) t; e* b x
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. 3 k. F: a6 F& `' X4 \) H
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
{6 ]9 b& g: \8 z' @' Cbut also where you are going.
0 w$ K- C p" t/ l! m Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
" d" K3 E6 E: e" ~( q Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
@8 c* f7 f- u8 T$ p6 q& A Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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6 W( \: F/ v. c1 K$ s Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
0 `# ]6 q4 L, \2 [# i* i8 ~Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 9 o: M! k5 q+ }0 Q7 c$ ^9 [8 O
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 ( P7 d# J* {# ] o s5 q1 q: _$ o
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 ! @/ V% _: M, K
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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5 T9 T0 j Z& @& U不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 3 h$ }, r8 z7 U
- C1 B8 F5 r2 w9 W7 x- O" u6 G不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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% _% L6 Q: X) i( |" h1 ^0 F+ b3 }不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 - P: E4 \9 A- k0 ]7 [- C
3 Z% L# n# w, ~4 m* n( h- \; b当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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U! p2 f- S- u5 _9 d, r; M- Y不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
, T+ J! R @0 }$ g9 n" Q9 B失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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, S7 j9 c% C( e, |) }9 I不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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, D- a" W. T1 X& o0 _不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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/ h- {8 J+ c# w8 _! B, T4 u不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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5 w( e2 u/ e4 Y3 \不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 ) E" y) p/ f9 O+ J/ F+ ~
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
7 y4 D3 V7 F/ ~ I2 P. A- ]昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
2 I& N: g$ {# k5 q那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 1 @9 V9 u9 P+ N- E7 v& z
( _* f' Z( n7 c+ s （周倩茹编译） : Y/ o+ O# q- |! Q$ R
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