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; r4 D6 u6 S9 s Strive For Balance in Life 1 }' m$ L+ ?* Q" S$ [2 A
努力保持生活的平衡 / Q3 x% i! z+ @, [& I4 X7 J
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! `& d$ a4 x( H5 @, C4 |* g Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. - x+ o2 }& b7 x
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
4 a O* A, F3 r$ lBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
8 H& u/ v f; S6 E; yThey will never be the same. ! u# ^ m% D2 b; L
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? $ }4 h S( F$ {1 h8 [' Y9 u
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
7 y! p4 J# {' wIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
( M* k; N% N3 R8 o Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
: X3 T! e. p3 L7 }( T' n2 b% y Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
! B; c4 m! M+ P2 g Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. + S' g: f' t& W! z- Y
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 1 n: v& U8 `9 x# w
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 8 ~0 m) J9 D' G4 u
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
$ n" h9 O- h1 ^$ U Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
+ B. I! [0 A2 N3 M/ S- m Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
0 l# Z& L, p# QThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
" E+ O9 B9 B3 q8 b$ F# C$ u# l8 P8 p Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 0 L, g V4 z( O( o. N1 r
but also where you are going.
3 ?+ V" |2 F$ |8 t- b Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
4 L2 @( y( {2 W5 v5 f Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
6 r" q! v' d1 X Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. 1 R) N0 G$ _4 F) q) [( j5 d
1 P1 ?/ i9 p: O* j) @6 f Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
( t7 g+ k+ c* N' w1 pTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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) U; g' O; t4 y 努力保持生活平衡 5 X2 v: Y! ]8 \5 ^# H* [
6 I2 |& P- a, D. E --布莱恩.戴森 ; u& ^, G' X: L% _- Z2 j
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 : f" R5 J' G' F) V8 u
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 $ `* M4 t0 [8 _# c
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 / r: K u9 A" D N* w% K" R6 i
% L. o2 k1 [7 ~你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ 2 M3 L! K$ W& G: x+ [6 F2 r4 R
2 a! {/ Y# |% W2 P7 P9 w不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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, m$ o, Y F' `& Y9 e+ g: ~不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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% ~# X( V n/ q S不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 & m* C5 a0 T4 I4 n2 t
}: L/ Z7 E2 ?" @* \& V( O不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 & L; p: V# I# D) _
4 ]2 j: X* A6 a7 o不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 8 Q. \) u3 @, K, h( m/ {
3 Z+ V' {" Y5 d不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 ! x7 `; J/ V1 ]3 ]# e' w) G
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
6 j. I7 }4 P( h0 B; ?# S! P失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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- x2 g* j1 J; A3 a不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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: ^7 T. |& E; n' h' r& H不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 & y }- A6 e% _6 ~$ j
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 # J: _) o( r) Z( \+ c6 B* Z) `( r
/ U T* ]) C" Z7 s6 }生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 : o; A8 T: M( n* z+ P. j: ]$ ~: V, H
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
) t3 ]* ~! w# q- }那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 7 a7 x& y. M- p) e( ~
9 ]4 \4 z" u5 m+ h （周倩茹编译） & s) M( h' }3 d
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