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* m9 s3 }! Y2 n4 d6 u Strive For Balance in Life 9 i4 R4 s' V* S1 k8 i9 q
努力保持生活的平衡
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6 u# ^0 T" o- n) D( I9 h Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
5 m$ l# y0 F' N8 `9 Fyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
+ _9 `. d& p! C8 P+ v, nBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. " B8 E9 w$ u, f' I9 _
They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? ; S) i) k# ]* h
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
, {( S- w4 e- {* x. Z1 F: GIt is because we are different that each of us is special. * L& h( @# c5 _5 t& j( ^
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
" g, Z m* |# l3 b: ]. Z3 p* i Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
7 L2 l2 h: G" |0 N( T Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. ; X+ Q8 U; W5 q- m5 \8 T
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
9 \4 C' G/ V' d6 |8 w" k Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 3 Q" U8 F7 k+ @" d
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
. Y0 D( {7 ^ z6 F9 }) [ Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
9 A( O" z6 ~& `4 R" n4 \% G Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
N9 Q# m6 q; A/ d! eThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
( @6 H8 ?! x2 t5 T Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 3 @, \0 @, Y7 ]* B% _/ ]7 c( H
but also where you are going. % z) O L/ g& J' r: ]( x% B6 V
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
0 \3 }1 U* ~( F3 ^' [3 t: c Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. * }$ O3 R1 U' g8 ~' ^& o& ]
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. 6 u% \9 G' d& s/ y* W# E: D. \4 z
2 D+ c+ u' `3 S( f4 y- n5 q Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 5 c! x' c- s2 x; {( e! Y* v1 o
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. # K. i A6 n, R& W! C+ R& {
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9 o0 M, L8 d5 f5 A/ R/ F8 y4 f# q 努力保持生活平衡 9 U" Y2 k c. r
; K4 B- l, V' v" O: A: E# I7 X! a% a --布莱恩.戴森 ) k. y+ b+ H! a1 p/ p5 T
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 3 r% P' J3 g: M2 g4 w
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 / G. A* F; L+ h: Z* M# B
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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3 f9 _4 e) ~0 f5 y H你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ 7 z/ V+ I. u7 I/ X' g; P8 D
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 ( M+ K5 C0 q) N
8 y7 L: b- B9 y2 U) I/ U/ ~! \不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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, j% |. c; M1 Y. ?6 k不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 8 W$ S2 v# G7 z' r/ L1 M5 O
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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& n# P2 C0 t7 D& n% Z; S不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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3 B' `5 C8 H: ~( h不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 * l$ }. u" Z* B
! f# {* x+ @) g/ P& N1 n% {( Y7 `# g不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； * B0 V5 k$ ^! b* Q+ r+ i
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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# K2 l; L4 `9 g; M9 i: ]3 M: a7 h不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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% g8 I$ O' r" g4 f, f `不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 , V! j7 y( c8 D, o8 p8 z @
1 C2 \- \ C5 _$ J% C7 l2 X不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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+ g# a' ^6 z9 C& p不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 4 X" g1 U) [& f" `# D B' Y5 F
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 ) V! s( _4 v$ R1 ^
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 0 ^& f" Y7 ~7 e
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 5 [: T% i5 r9 x4 W1 ?9 J( D
# ^, F3 e% X" b5 D1 H （周倩茹编译）
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