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努力保持生活的平衡
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- ^1 L( e" [, d. h by Brain Dyson 9 k8 F& K+ L: _3 Z
4 ?9 k/ J5 i' B( j# r% F' K Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 7 d! F" `7 \1 f4 ^' k
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. + c3 U( m$ k6 c" z. f- R; K( ?
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
4 v0 o: j3 n0 m# w5 u- c2 N% nThey will never be the same. " Y$ R- ?; W1 y) l' q
+ H" F) a5 X! y0 h: p# b You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? - b0 N, m3 I* ?' ]! s3 {/ u; y
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
- T# P5 I5 Y7 U6 xIt is because we are different that each of us is special. $ Z, V! ] S5 W+ f
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. + e7 D5 }. Y- g/ B2 s6 h$ Q
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. z& c5 k! ?& h: Y
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 7 \2 f7 p: E9 T' H; m
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 7 t4 c( v6 O# d- D: b* r' h2 N
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 1 M3 X, R6 w$ G* X0 r1 Z- }
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 7 Q2 B( O$ v+ h9 ]
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
) N3 c# l4 T3 f6 y. H) i/ N Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
d! B) K( G9 [8 h/ R* M2 _The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. : e& }; V7 \2 Q; ~, I* ^
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 2 ~; {. ^4 [0 T/ P' M# A
but also where you are going. 9 S4 y# l% |' S% j
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
1 s3 Z4 d6 H1 \# [1 N Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 4 [" m) V9 d6 v, T4 ]
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
+ u9 Q* m; |3 i6 f8 n' vTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. / T1 z& A2 O/ G( c! o
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, G, s4 U$ j9 n4 [% _' m 努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森 8 B6 ~4 `: [4 X8 U. p
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 * v$ P! [3 k# [4 c/ L5 T; K& s- |
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 1 _( ^; s( L2 ?. ^5 p* L+ y6 s
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 ~3 C5 x# a/ z% H$ ~
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ " f8 d: t- P7 F, N
2 G4 C% i' j5 a. d3 F% z不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 5 ~! ^4 f8 g2 z3 T4 K* l+ {+ H
9 A! ?% v! s i" D& _1 K! P8 R不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 ( F" b; b1 G& V" |- @8 B/ H9 p
' o* n) }7 L! d2 c/ v9 g+ W" i- m% s% ]当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 ' H! h5 D# k0 ^: n
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
3 R/ g q, A; R% D' \: [2 z& s" w失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 6 _- ]* U; k1 G% [' g
, E: S5 W: g# @4 |4 V6 }. | O不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 ' }% m& X7 r8 S+ P I* }
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 . W% a& P- B+ N2 I! E
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 % p) x: n' Q r }
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： ) S2 h- @: c! C7 Q
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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