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努力保持生活的平衡
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. : ^* D1 u0 y5 e, `6 Y
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
9 l' E/ O! o9 C/ NBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
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8 Z: {8 i7 @) M/ V/ w& u$ k You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
' p6 O: p; V6 ]- E: f Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 8 P P3 I7 h6 h' T6 ^/ ]
It is because we are different that each of us is special. ) [% S' B% |; ?" q ?
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
2 Y4 G7 N6 D# ?( J: c0 q4 Y Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
' B1 l; x5 v; d) |" d6 s9 n% A' \ Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 3 Q# j3 T& F4 m+ [
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
- `% b5 \% k* X8 X Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. ; I& v9 [( X) t
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
6 F6 B5 m4 x/ } Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. # m& W6 L6 D" a$ v+ F, [' f
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
1 J( g6 q4 E3 {; S+ I* A& BThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
- e+ {% S+ }: G& P Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
: z" Y7 Q7 n: {6 ^5 Z$ _' L7 xbut also where you are going.
7 c' q* f. t' w. | Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
/ p. r% ~8 A5 O3 R% l Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. . ?1 [6 o- A+ C/ W- d; M* z
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, $ C4 q6 Z) y# v) Z
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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+ @; i2 s/ A$ ` r* `: Z, s% q --布莱恩.戴森
6 K1 D" W2 T+ D! | 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
6 k7 {. i+ q% S8 `3 j如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
5 f5 E/ A" V) I: e它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 * f1 i! g. N c+ \9 n8 [8 x
" x9 d) n& t! k0 U% e6 _; q9 k不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 ; C+ F) [! Z' Y5 n$ N4 D M
9 _& C" ]) a# W6 P7 q# T2 t) n2 O- z不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 " C% u3 y; y& U5 m0 G5 D9 F
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 , H) A* e/ z7 @+ M
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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) K; R: N! D; j! U+ y不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 5 Z! J4 H, {) ?) ]4 G0 J6 N
4 O0 I" a0 F! @7 t. @5 R+ ~不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
3 O# u8 ]# p) Y8 t- @( z; D失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 " [, O6 M5 E! i r% {
$ E& Z; o- x8 K不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 $ ~* p7 M& u) m; I7 Z* s7 N7 ]
' q) f! m b" \0 Z# H不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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$ j m2 p: ]5 T" I生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 % I" A$ G$ g0 [7 q/ G4 |9 ]9 V/ t) Y
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
2 D& f4 t5 t9 |( b那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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