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$ x7 X4 a& V* r. P Strive For Balance in Life , U" _ b" L, ]; a, E
努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson 0 A- \7 k7 r* y3 ^# l
/ g& ]- P K1 a Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
' ~- M8 x A7 Qyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
6 N" |" @9 _0 ZBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
3 z9 q6 ^' l2 yThey will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
# o4 V) U. K8 A Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
" p/ z( B& h2 x; d/ _It is because we are different that each of us is special.
' i: D2 k7 [1 ]3 w! u( l Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
2 O( }4 k7 P% |. ~5 W Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 7 o8 n, @5 L9 k1 s+ }% B& x
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. - G) U' u: H9 v. i/ ]* f6 @
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. , h, j6 @- P) g1 T( Z: W
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 4 M& Z7 R# U- O0 u* E9 u
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. # V( q$ J- j7 ~) c% J M
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
( R$ a R7 Q" u1 U: P K Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 9 d) X5 k% D3 ]$ O1 }
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
! }; e3 e4 K) } Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
# b$ d; ^6 k: j8 dbut also where you are going. `+ p U1 u; I' x* }) |
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
) j9 E0 w8 ?- _' d Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. % _+ A6 N f- S% D
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. , _5 C0 j5 q% T
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
* a- q& k( o n) sTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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/ _" ? E0 ]+ Y) P$ n. r; R1 R+ O 努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森
& w' t/ x8 `6 n5 Y3 L2 ]% ?; ], R. L 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
" L+ x: q% g ^' f如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 # O8 J! w( k4 C% I7 c9 N
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 8 {, Q3 k+ t; Q7 d( j0 j) f/ b
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ & R% R& g! Q5 ~5 v6 l& r9 X: `
" R# K% z0 R( s" Q: k% `3 f8 E5 s6 v& A不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 " I8 M# ^! ~" P! W' r8 y! ~ s" F3 `
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 1 ?- F* |( O& {8 e
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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0 \8 T) i) H5 T4 c当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 + N( ^8 O( \8 L* b4 f% Q& [0 m" t
, g2 A) w6 ~6 L% m, q不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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& A ^5 t2 @" k# P* X1 \0 P不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 4 p6 }' u1 a& c
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； / K; [, o5 m. d+ |1 \0 T! U
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 & T/ J9 s; O; b, _5 {8 {
$ g; c3 @2 `* [6 n# X3 U6 |" Z不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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3 ?6 J2 w# X$ F8 I' D0 v# g不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 - M1 i0 S6 l# d) i7 ^0 d+ w
' ~ }3 _. {' W9 B不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 ' J. U4 x' M8 W R2 C
8 l# T' I7 M3 f, T( k不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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: T0 O0 C3 L' m0 m生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 ( k; ], Q& ~% |( i6 H! D: ?
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
* j) I5 U* b. ~4 i那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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