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Strive For Balance in Life 5 x0 B/ V1 \4 c
努力保持生活的平衡
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
/ o. V2 f5 s# ?1 {; k B1 r; hyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
) B; R4 I7 r. f1 iBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. . ^4 g! a7 O6 x
They will never be the same. , i& c/ t4 h, B! X" v U# w9 f$ _. |
+ y- ^" J3 P# G' D You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 8 U1 y0 K4 l- w7 N& r
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. , X) x6 c. X8 t6 \/ j% W, b
It is because we are different that each of us is special. + N! D7 _2 V; i P
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
1 P' n+ K7 I3 f! @4 \ Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 1 D- |, q! W+ w
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. # o* i( A* I/ Z/ p! J6 I) q, r; o+ ~
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
, Y) N$ O* |/ _; { K+ Y Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. $ x( K1 h3 w' G
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
' \( m9 e: M2 c Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. ) R2 Z1 O$ M; v% A
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
1 h) H% h! U# c2 ^% gThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
& @: T2 T8 l5 Z3 k8 l: ] Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 0 y6 F3 o/ O9 U
but also where you are going. : `, A/ {. g2 r2 y
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. : G) a) w' F3 |2 |
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. t# |3 O( E7 ]1 p4 u1 R+ B
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. ; b; T @5 o7 l" ^( H3 i, c, {5 r
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
7 ] l* t! A4 Y' ^7 ]Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. R$ c0 }* n5 R' D- Y
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努力保持生活平衡
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! f7 j4 A( T" }$ W# y --布莱恩.戴森 ( ?; E! m6 ^5 Z2 A* [
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
" B" E0 W0 ]& p7 V% K( h/ ]5 o. Y如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
& d! D3 g5 x* J! t1 {它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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9 z2 {4 ]3 G9 L) q- C m% A8 f你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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+ V" y* X2 d2 j6 T1 l不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 9 t# ]' @' d( T& r; M3 M9 {1 g% ]
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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% R0 o8 V4 q) U7 ?! ~8 c9 B/ {6 p不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 8 V( ^' G) q2 _: Q
& y( t8 N. h8 Z: a2 K: r不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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S2 t/ F) l% d& G( l1 R9 d& z当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 : e9 M9 X5 z8 k a9 ^$ R$ C, k$ |
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
' U9 R# A+ C B a9 X失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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) E6 K+ d/ \' m( X. i4 i不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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' W0 f8 j2 p" W" m, v6 n* }不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 % G- O5 l& y8 `" @! S( N) a* S
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 $ {, {7 @5 g) c
0 `- L7 J' a- ~ v' D8 N生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
8 I$ w; m d5 I昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： ]+ I4 }6 \0 }
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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6 g* i! B$ R5 Q" W4 [ （周倩茹编译） ) l/ z* J$ H: I2 c, r! m0 s
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