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( T: E2 X- G/ D; A Strive For Balance in Life - Y# k/ P W* s y
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by Brain Dyson
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
: x$ e9 l( ^7 A1 nyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. + n/ k6 x7 S8 N$ o/ j) ^
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. ) E o; y( d4 \- L" w Q
They will never be the same. ) d5 z( Q7 R2 Y: f; k# g2 J3 ~3 X) }
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
& r3 _% o. I* F Y5 F8 b% r) ?& `2 z Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. % N; v: H& A6 }2 T/ p' F7 }! L4 k0 `2 ~
It is because we are different that each of us is special. % U p; d p4 f- F3 l/ q d
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. - i$ i" n' @/ z' l
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. + Q2 K. A' I+ b: S7 O8 S# @$ N. e, ]
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 5 F) Z4 l, M( Z, V* E9 A0 B
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
+ |# t8 ~' K5 D) C Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
( i9 C- [4 l0 ?/ A9 _ Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. - j, ~ S: {; L+ @3 D' E5 k* q
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
8 b( ~7 u t7 ~" I2 D Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ( F/ Z" a! R% v M" |+ K' M3 Z
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
1 n8 V; Q5 ~1 U$ c) X Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
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" C4 K% Q3 g& ]% W4 h! V" a Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. ; z8 Z' ]2 p8 E. m! a! g; t
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. . R$ d5 b* D" q- \# I
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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7 W2 x' _3 M7 {: \4 r g" e6 g$ P) X Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, . q1 o* B5 t, a
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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努力保持生活平衡
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
0 h: e& {/ H: ]8 C如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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1 ~% D! \( _, z" D不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 / P6 ?" q! Q% @% {* L& w- g3 Y
: D% l1 C4 E) _' r不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 2 _0 D' J/ D2 n0 @" W" I' ^$ `1 `
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 ; I, c4 u1 |* k4 [6 o( T
- u! o2 D5 J$ _( f: O当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 7 a' E, }. K/ w$ h
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 % n- q' X/ Z3 k
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
X$ j' j* u( W1 f% y0 z失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 ' `0 C$ @, T& X6 b4 l# ~
" L9 y$ H; K3 D6 L4 g8 l9 P不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 / s( d$ G: j/ S" T! z
& R: l9 K0 H4 _5 @不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 + M D. f" q# @/ f# V/ v% B
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 : a4 j0 e7 X7 z, g: J6 R# l3 }
( Z: i& T6 q. A7 |0 m生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
) r( y3 o) X G/ z昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 5 @' T5 G; G# _( r+ w
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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（周倩茹编译）
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