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Strive For Balance in Life
/ }% m1 ~9 t- h7 L, S 努力保持生活的平衡
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
. W) \# i, i7 B8 L5 P% Z F5 kyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. % I; }$ ~# ]1 f9 K8 ^ U$ u+ \
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
( Y# _$ @ h6 j; n6 @They will never be the same. B* w# @+ q4 o7 L" l8 J* ^( I
9 o! f. F) S: r' \$ T& T5 b W You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
6 g1 i0 I) f t3 q Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. / _1 O: J2 N8 {; C
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
2 d* ]7 t" _9 V; E' u* Z/ C+ h8 J Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 4 H2 i L' q6 f6 R+ f, o
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
) p j3 E2 z w( G( e1 x Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
7 O; y4 z" \9 |# J: X+ ]: b' ]By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. x. w6 K7 q0 _; y+ t+ z
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
/ g: w' B+ i2 ~* I) n* r Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. % I5 j& @4 Z* o9 X0 ~! a
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. + N# S( Y# L' @0 Q! q& `
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
! w- ?% o7 g' }6 y% l( iThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. 6 H! x4 L7 q, L+ [, H
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 0 ]' T7 u4 u; V; k2 `8 S
but also where you are going.
# H; n0 f9 B. F( ]/ Q3 k) T2 b Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
! u& I4 j# ^5 D9 A Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 3 m6 A4 j" r2 o4 l: n
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
1 H! e& B7 x1 H- N6 |Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森 . R2 u2 l* k3 k0 R/ B
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
) d% _0 k; g8 t8 D) h% U; x如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 0 b6 i9 U$ O1 s/ d y7 }- P
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 " D& w* C) {4 ? d0 ^
$ `$ X% x& ?+ Y+ F& U% u: d3 G9 r9 F你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ / ^% [# y! @/ p5 t% M: P
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 . H8 K8 W' E" z Y. V
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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1 i1 |& o! L& B9 _$ A. x% d不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 . a. V! l7 k" q
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 7 K+ T! N, D |: @
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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# x- B: B! z4 N1 L: H& H) E! J不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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) L5 k5 g9 u2 W不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 ) a$ j5 ] F& R+ j9 F$ S/ b% K
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 9 o; x- j5 W" a, D+ I. _" w7 d. n
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 y! Q' h8 [( l9 \3 x
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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0 F: n+ R; }8 F: _: @8 ], m不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 3 I' r" r5 C2 F% ~" M2 G3 ]( \- Z4 ~
3 ]4 E% r- Y5 E2 o1 I: A不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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; B- c# L+ z+ x2 g1 }不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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8 [( L8 p0 K7 R8 h生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 - k5 @8 Z2 e: {4 g% m6 ^& O
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： & I; P1 R) i9 R S- U) Q8 Q: S
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 , n% [; {1 g" r/ q
- A& M! d4 w" f, }" S （周倩茹编译）
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